Parenting Books...

I love reading parenting books. I know. That makes me weird. But I do... I also believe that you can never have to many tools in your parenting toolbox.

Right now I am reading a lot of books on preteen and adolescent boys. Do you know how challenging it is to be a single mom to a boy?! I love my boys dearly and I want to understand what makes them tick and I want to be equipped to parent them so they can grow up to Godly, responsible adults!

My boys are pretty easy for the most part.But I want to understand them, to "get it", to build them up instead of tearing them down.

So the other day I was killing time by shopping at Ollies. I love to look through their book selections. I stumbled on this book! Raise Him Up: A Single Mother's Guide to Raising a Successful Black Man


 I love Stephanie and Derek Moore. My kids love the Alec London Series) and the (Morgan Love Series) by Stephanie and Derek Moore. This is the only christian, African American preteen book series I have ever found! The kids devoured these books!

So I hoped the "Raise Him Up" book would be good too! I am only half way through and am already loving it. It is so encouraging. I am learning a lot and it is motivating me to continue to push my boys, to be strong and firm to help them become the strong black men!




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Field Trip with Friends...

We love visiting this place! We got a membership for the year. Today we met up with friends and hung out for a couple hours. (my friend is a single adoptive mom too, so we love to chat)

Lots of coffee was consumed by this momma. 

My kids thought it would be cool to wear shorts and flip flops... instead of cool, they were cold! 

Nesiah was bored. She did not enjoy this field trip! 

There are all sorts of fun activities. Rolling balls show how gravity works. 

Ping pong balls and blowing air... the boys liked this one! 

Working together to add some extra omph! 

David lets the ball spin around and around.... 

The mommas hung out and chatted while supervising! The thing we love about this place, is the open space. It is an easy place to sit, relax and watch the kids while chatting. The kids love it too! Its a win win situation. Today was pretty packed tho. Normally we can go in and only see one or two other moms. Today there was a constant stream of people.

The weird thing in our day... There was this father with his son. Dad was wearing a bandana, skull jacket, all black clothes, very cleaned up, but long pony tail and wait.... for it.... a huge knife in a sheath.

The kiddoe was like 4 yrs old. He was wearing baggy pants, a skull shirt, had a long pony tail and was wearing a bandanna.  The son got into a tussle with mine over a toy. I warned my son to NOT MESS WITH THAT KID, HIS DAD IS SCARY! ;)  My son just rolled his eyes at me.

Then 10 minutes later he comes over, eyes big, MOM, THAT MAN HAS A HUGE KNIFE!!!!

My friend leaned over and whispered... "that's why your mom said to stay away from the kiddoe"!  My kiddoes made sure to stay far away from that kiddoe after that! But really, why a knife in a kid place?!

A Little of This and That!

Life seems to be slowing down a bit. Less Drama! PTL!! Less appointments for everyone. The school year is wrapping up nicely. Spring is FINALLY coming! We have lots of odd little projects scattered here and there through out our life. Tidbits that reflect our personalities and lifestyle.

Fayth earned this little fashionette set... She is my princessy girl in the midst of tomboys and boys. Poor child.  

I find little slips of papers all over my house, tidbits of drawings she did with this set. She had fun taking pictures for me! 

She dreams of having long blond hair... 

Gardening... Elizabeth worked incredibly hard on preparing the garden for plants. She hoed and pulled weeds for hours, willingly. She loves digging in the dirt in her barefeet. She is def her momma's daughter! 

We planted broccoli, cauliflower, and romaine lettuce. 

We covered them carefully to protect them from cold nights. Now we pray the chickens don't get out! 

AHHH green sprouts! Spring is coming! Spring is coming! We are excited!